Loving Life!

We have a mobile baby… She scooted all the way across the living room! Klaira is such a big girl! I am sure Leyna won’t be too far behind… I think it is about time to get a play yard so I can still get some things done around the house :)

To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.

But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

Many people have looked down upon me in the past few years. For getting pregnant out of wedlock, to filing for divorce. What I don’t think many of them realize is that no matter how obvious your sin is to everyone else it is equal in the eyes of God to little lies or even something as simple as speeding. I also don’t think many people realize that technically Brandon divorced me. He abandoned his children and me. I feel that the girls deserve some sort of support from their father. He was unwilling to file for divorce because he did not want to be committed to a scheduled visitation and to child support. I had to take action to ensure my girls were safe and supported by their father. 

Also I did what the Word says I should have done. I let him leave. There is no way for me to change Brandon’s heart or to make him a better person. 

My little girls are seriously perfect! I go into their room this morning because I hear them talking. They were both standing in their cribs turned to look who came in and just got these huge smiles on their faces when they saw me. I am such a blessed momma! 

Actions speak so much louder than words. In order to teach our children to love each other we need to do it and show them how. Our children learn so much from us. Not only basic lessons that need to be learned but also how to have relationships. How do we expect our world to change if we make no effort at improving it? We want our children to have better lives than our own but we do nothing to ensure that. 

I will do my best to teach my girls to stand out in the crowd because they deserve better than the best.